2009年4月30日星期四

[每日一篇] If you became very rich...

A few years ago I read in the newspaper about a man who suddenly became rich by winning the Mark Six Lottery. The first thing he did was to fulfil his dream of buying a very expensive car. He immediately chose the latest model, and went for a drive. He was so happy and excited that he drove very fast, crashed into another car and was killed. That was a tragedy for his family.

More recently, I read about a poor young boy who worked hard selling newspapers, and at the age of fourteen he had saved enough money to buy a small farm. Later he got married. He is now a famous person, named Warren Buffett, the second richest man in the US. Recently Mr Buffett donated 31 million US dollars to charity.

In spite of his great wealth, Mr Buffett still lives in a small town house, which is not protected by any high walls or railings, and he has no security guards. He drives his own car and has no driver. He does not carry a mobile phone, avoids wearing designer clothes, does not like to show off his wealth, or socialise with wealthy friends.

Yet, after 50 years of hard work, Mr Buffett owns 63 business companies and employs many Chief Executive Officers (CEOs), to whom he gives the advice "Don't lose shareholders' money". That shows that he cares about his clients. He advises people not to use credit cards because they only lead to heavy debt. In fact, he is an unusual person.

Mr Buffett is a happy man because he is free from all bad influences in business, considers other people, can set an example to others, and shares money with the poor and needy.

If all rich people behaved like Mr Buffett , we would not have so many homeless, starving people in the world. No doubt we would not have wars, caused by those who want to grab the world's resources to make themselves rich, and who do not consider how many people they have killed, wounded or made homeless, in order to get what they want.

Have a discussion with your friends and consider what you would choose if you became rich. Then consider what makes people really happy: grabbing money, or helping those in need?

Learn this proverb: "It is better to give than to receive."

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Born Elsie Hume in England, graduated from Durham University, lived in China 1948-51, and in Hong Kong since then. Married Andrew Tu and worked together for justice and people's rights.
Hong Kong Life Publishing Date: 2008/6/17


Miss Ip says:
What would you do if you became very rich?
I would help the others, especially the children who don't have enough money to study.

[每日一篇] 立論 [作者:魯迅]

我夢見自己正在小學校的講堂上預備作文,向老師請教立論的方法。

「難!」老師從眼鏡圈外斜射出眼光來,看著我,說。「我告訴你一件事——

「一家人家生了一個男孩,合家高興透頂了。滿月的時候,抱出來給客人看,——大概自然是想得一點好兆頭。

「一個說:『這孩子將來要發財的。』他於是得到一番感謝。

「一個說:『這孩子將來是要死的。』他於是得到一頓大家合力的痛打。

「說要死的必然,說富貴的許謊。但說謊的得好報,說必然的遭打。你……」

「我願意既不說謊,也不遭打。那麼,老師,我得怎麼說呢?」

「那麼,你得說:『啊呀!這孩子呵!您瞧!那麼……。阿唷!哈哈!Hehe!he,hehehehe!』」

一九二五年七月八日

Miss Ip的話:

魯迅的「立論」收於散文集《野草》,是個有趣的故事。

立論真的那麼困難嗎?

各人有自己的立場與觀點,大家都只喜歡聽「好話」而逃避現實嗎?

[每日一篇] 孩子學習沒上進心

  你的孩子有這樣的情況嗎?他上課時不愛發言,雖然能夠認真聽講、完成作業,但質量不高,學習成績中等,缺乏上進心。

  其實,他們可能存在精神欲求不足的現象。孩子各方面都表現得「不過不失」,在群體中不顯眼,容易被人忽略,感到被人漠視而產生一些心理問題。

以下是給爸爸、媽媽的一些建議:

1) 多鼓勵孩子,讓孩子看到自己的優勢。當孩子在學習上取得進步時,及時給予表揚。

2) 多創造條件和機會讓孩子嘗到成功的滋味,不斷強化孩子的自信心。

3) 爸爸、媽媽應特別注意不要諷刺、挖苦孩子,要維護孩子的自尊心,提高孩子學習的積極性。

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